It seems the key was to take the photos with the crappy camera.. and take them from the floor level so there was less light!! This is the color we painted dd's bedroom, isn't it beautiful?!
It is called Obi Lilac and it's from Sherwin Williams. The white is Heavenly White off the same color card. We (I laugh.. *I*) bought the Duration paint and while it may be more money.. it will hopefully last a long long time. See my entry below for more details.